Respected Shri Ramratan ji 20th Punya Smaran

आदरणीय श्री रामरतन जी 20वां पुण्य स्मरण

It has been  long 20 years  when my dad  Respected   Ramratan ji  soul merged with real  lord Shri Ram in heaven on 31st March 2002.. . His entire life is an example for community and family members to adopt good moral values and always MOVE FORWARD to cross over all the roadblocks in life   by demonstrating   the generosity , love and compassion 

.Our family must have done some Punya that we got birth  in family of  respected Ramratan ji as  dad and mom  respected Kamalrani .  

During his last days  he wrote his FINAL WILL and  whatever was possible gave to all brother and sister .Purpose of his WILL was that he didn’t want anyone to develop any grudge or bad thought about each other . He  reminded us to follow Ramayana mantra ” Janha Sumati tah sampati nana jha kumati tah vipati nidana .

We remember him today being death anniversary to remind ourselves to bring good thoughts in our life to keep   to become good person by adopting teaching from   respected Ramratan ji .

This is time to think  how much difficult for  dad to  do his own education with so much constrained  , living at other person  home. In his college days he used to eat just one meal , to save money to pays tuition.

He build confidence , provide us  everything what we  have in life His life was like that of a lion as he shared income with family and community . He always distinguish by helping to anyone in need . He thoughts us not to be selfish by illustrating good example from Ramayana . This is explained clearly in his letter.

my dad -Ramratan ji explanations that he used to share through letter including examples  that will make it easy to understand .I have included 2 letter in the post

In upcoming pages I have made efforts to write few aspect and comments about Pita ji Shri Ramratan ji Gupta

My father  Ramratan ji and mother Kamalrani ji had in depth knowledge of Ramayan , specially on how to  learn & adopt moral values in our life . My father used to organize   Ramayan  experts all over the India  for the  lecture series  for may years in our hometown  Paratwada in Maharashtra. He has developed deep expertise  to use excerpt from Ramayan and  its relevant in our daily life. He also used to write handwritten letter  5-6 pages to us and explain difficult  aspects of life in simple explanation from Ramayan . He  also shared with  me many versions of Ramayan. Finally, I started reading  Ramayan to  learn and correlate   my own experience for possible  improvement in  my own life.

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Shri Sharad Gupta Bhopal

आप हमारे आर्दश है आपके जीवन का अनुसरण करके हम अपने आपको , आपके पंद चान्हो पर चलने का प्रयास करे आप से स्नेह मिलता रहा जो हमारे जीवन मे मार्ग दर्शन करता है । सभी के प्रति करूणा और सेवा का जो भाव था वो महान था आपकि कमी को कोई पुरा नहि कर सकता ,मे अपनी और से और परिवार कि और से श्रृदासुमन अर्पित करता हू।

Rashmi Gupta

Nanaji was a gem person. He truly goes by his name Ramratan – ram ji ke guno se bhare hua bete.He was man of words.If he promises something he makes sure he will do it

He always get well with everyone. He not even makes other to understand there mistake but guide them in there way what is best for that person’s life.

I always want to go to summer holidays in paratwada where everyone is in one house and enjoy our childhood with full family. I use to be very excited to reach paratwada house and meet nanaji and naniji and everyone.

Nanaji ki jab yaad aati thi and use to send someone to purchase same gupta bhel from gujari and while eating i recall the love of nanaji at that time

Anil

True with so much constrained for resources dad had but ensured each of us had everything in life .He sent me to Bombay as first to go far and ensure I have money . That time it was cheaper but even get that money was very hard same think he did for everyone .He thought is to be careful in our expenditure .Lets always keep our thought and action integrated on the path he demonstrated will be really helpful to be successful .

Dad Shri Ramratan Ji has give back so much to community and touched heart of any one who came in contact with him .He was self made and first on our business family to get educated as lawyer.He was also very spiritual and very knowledgeable in explaining how Ramayan can enhance our life . Surely we all indebted to our parents who brought us in this world .Let’s continue to remind ourselves to keep remembering and honoring our ancestors because of their contribution and sacrifice we enjoying improved life

What he gave us  we cannot  think  and hence  let’s learn, think  why we can’t adopt more of what  he expected from  us . We are so  proud to get such father and mother….Lets their blessings  keep us united  and help me reduce  my selfish nature

Sister Kiran Gupta

Jaishriram our amma bhaiya was a god gift to us.it is very proud that anil has bhaiyas letter before 30 years still with him. If we ever had gone to bhaiya taking some problem he used to start from general tendencies and till middle by giving ramayan incidents and conclusions we agree with him.

.Before Gas agency interview bhaiya had collected a lot of information on LPG GAS.How much he took pain and pain and pain only amma bhaiya and myself and god knows. We had A good bounding i always thought that he made my interview preparations took a lot of pain and had missed his court from wondering from Bhopal to Delhi.here to there there to there at the same time faced high court .

kitna bolu likhu ya feel karu koi us pyar aur dedication ko nahi samz sakta. Today all our businesses are due to bhaiyas rambhakti. He never felt proud.he took his father to mumbai for best treatment of cancer. He took his step mother to amravati for heart treatment and admitted in private hospital after 25 days of treatment she recovered.

He gave us sanskars. Telling jaha sumati tah sampatti nana.he taught us to be united in one sutra.always keep good and positive thoughts. He made his will and distributed his property without making any difference between son or daughter.

He told at last “i am giving my name to you and don’t forget dharti me eak dana dalo to hajar milte hai.yane if we will do good work it would help hundreds in returns. At the same time he warn us by telling pani me hago aur socho ki koi nahi dekh raha hai to jaise pani ka haga uper aata hai to pap aap kitna bhi chipakar karo uske dushparinam samne aate hi hai .so pap se bacho. Don’t be smart always remember god is everywhere.he is watching you.if something is in your fate no body can take away from you.and if there is nothing in your fate nobody can provide you.be honest in every path of life.

Sarika /Shilpa/Swapnil

You are with me all my life. Am indebted to you for giving me your favourite daughter as a Mom.

She is just like you so can feel you around me .

I remember all the days we spent together, going for walking with Murhekar Nanaji, reading comics, visiting places

Nanaji, was a humble and determined individual that along with naniji, nurtured and fostered this family to what it is today.

Starting with his humble beginnings, he built a strong foundation for the family through his mind, soul and hard work. We received this through is lineage and are successful in our own ways.

Even as he struggled with health issues, he kept believing in god and taught us to the same in times of distress. May he rest peace and keep blessing us from afar, as he always does.

What else can I say am indebted to them for my existence.

Tears roll down my eyes remembering the day I met him last on 30 March 2002 .How much he had planned for my wedding.

Usha Sister

Beautiful Hammre Amma, bhaiya great pic thanks for sharing Anil, Golden memories, proud of mom, Dad aap chale gaye pr yaado me aap heart❤ Hamesha rahete ho.Iam very lucky aap dono parents ke rup me hame mile shayad kuch punay hoge mere jo etne payre mummy Papa mile.aap ki barbari hum me se koi bhi nahi kar sakta aap mahan the mahan log Bhagwan ji kuch logo ko banakar hi dharti pr bhejte hai aap logo ne bahut katnita ke din dekhe hai .pr humko khabi koi kami nahi hone di.log bolte hai bachpan sab se accha hota hai sach hai aaj bhi bachpan ki yaade mere Dil bar,bar aa rahi hai aapke gungan karne me mai asmarth hu.jitna likhu utna hi cam hai.sat sat Naman hi kar sakti hu

Very true Anil 🙏🙏 thanks God ki mera birth Dad,Ramratanji,maa Kamala Rani ke ghar hua ,meri aakansha hai yadi mujhe manav ka Janam milta hai to mujahe Dad,mom hi mere parents ho,bhaiya jassa to faimly me koi nahi na hone ki aasha hai Mahan log Mahan hote hai Bhagwan unhe sacrifice ke liye hi bhejte bhaiya kalyag ke Ram ke rupe me hame mile ye hamar good luck hi hai Bhaiya l Miss you very much, Bhagwan unki atamaa ko Shanti pradan kre ,na to Meri English etni aachi,ki aaj mai apne words kuch likh Pau , unko yek baar Naman karti hu

Kamna and Vinayak

I was very little when dadaji passed away but I remember him fondly still and wish often I had many more days and memories with him than I do. I know he was an amazing person because he raised my dad (and daadi too) my dad is an amazing person I aspire to be like in many ways. Much love dadaji aapki aatma ko shaanti mile🙏🏾

Ravi Gupta

Nanaji was a great human being. Today we all are happy is because of Nanaji. Whenever in Paratwada you meet anyone they say accha Ramratanji ke naati ho. He was a great man. Earning name is what we can learn from him. I used to bring gupchup for Nanaji and nani. I was so close to them and miss them a lot.

Suyash , Gauri and Sunil Gupta

Bhagwan baba dadi ko jha bhi ho achee se rehke and will always remain in our heart

Sankalp and Neha

Unfortunately I couldn’t spend a lot of time with him, but his stories binds us together as a family and this is what makes us feel that he’s still around in our loving memories