It’s our judgement and personal choice that motivate us during any circumstances, direct our mind and thoughts in right direction to execute our daily task. In my opinion, most important parameter is to talk with ourselves to make a judgment. This can be practice by building moral value from Ramayan .Lets learn today few more pearl of wisdom.
“All that glitters is not gold “–
Sita ji got attracted to a spotted deer that looked incredibly beautiful. She wanted Ram to get the deer for her from the jungle. Actually, it wasn’t a deer, but Mareech, Ravana’s accomplice in disguise of the animal.
This illustration teaches us that what’s we see from outside is not reality .Prior to get excited for any attraction try to develop ability to analyze & then differentiate to take right decision .
Like in stock market not all stock with become TESLA or GAME STOP STOCK !!! So any time lets take a deep breath to think twice and look for many alternative and listen to EXPERT friends who will guide us and finally whatever we do its our OWN decision .May hanuman ji remain in our heart to guide us in our life
Comments from Sister Kiran
Sitaji was attracted by the beautiful deer who was shining as Gold… But Sitaji was attracted by golden shining deer and God fulfilled her wish so much that she was taken to actually Golden city LANKA . She found gold everywhere but Sitaji then realized the value of real golden Ram her husband. As Sita understood the real happiness of life ,she spent her entire life in remembering Ram .We should be satisfied with whatever God has given us,
Remain humble
No matter how powerful you become “– Hanuman could have easily rescued Sita from Ravana’s Ashoka Vatika. He had the power to single-handedly fight against Ravana’s army. But he chose to surrender to Lord Ram’s divinity and let him do the needful.
What we learn from this illustration is that we all need to remain in our boundary and provide respect to the person who gave us responsibility .
This can also be viewed when friend trust and share with us in confidence we should follow the rule to remain in parameter of trust not to take over and broadcast to others .
This is applicable in professional life too .. We should do our task rather than taking decision that direct reporting manager job responsibility. This is also helpful to increase individual productivity , built peer confidence and remain happy without unwanted stress.
Comments from Kiran sister –
Sitaji should not feel sorry so Hanuman ji gave her with confidence that Ramji would come and kill demons and take her back to Ayodhya .In fact Ramji had never told Hanumanji that he would go to Lanka and would kill the demons and after that he would bring Sitaji . Hanumnji knew that Ramji had punished Bali for keeping others wife so naturally Ram would punish Ravan on the same ground .so Hanuman had not rescued Sita ji and returned to Ram with all the information.
Be loyal to your spouse “
Ravana tried to lure Sita after abducting her. But Sita ji never let him succeed in his attempts. Ramji didn’t remarry after Sita ji was forcefully abandoned by him even after conducting the ‘Agni Pariksha’.
Being a King, he enjoyed the privilege of having many queens, but he chose to remain loyal to his beloved wife – Sita ji. This is very relevant when slight misunderstanding can result in separation between husband and wife .
At same time we find many examples how happy partnership remains for entire life . Its beautiful way to say that living together with spouse is LIFE PARTNER ( Till life exits partnership remains !!)
Its important we need to pay close attention to maintain the association and develop aptitude and approach to align each other thought process . Its complex and not easy at same time develop tolerance to each other build trust .
This rightly said Ardhangini” is the “Better half” i.e. wife of one, in English. In Indian culture, Husband & Wife are recognized as a single entity, comprising both as a half each; hence “ardhangini”, meaning “half of the entire” .
Entire life goes to understand each other hence writing few lines in the post is keep our awareness and our devotion for each other to create a successful family .
Conclusion
Let’s continue to build our trust with each family and friend so we can depend on each other without any hesitation or thinking / doubt how someone will like our approach.
Shriram and Hanumanji has tremendous trust as there was no doubt on each other abilities rather each other existence was on sound relationship that has increase positivity of association.
Hanumanji without even asking did each and every important and difficult task. I also see such strong association in our friends , family and community that’s is our foundation of successful life. Surely, we all can live our life but it’s important that do something good to any one in need without give/ take principle build a strong trust
Let’s adopting Hanumanji quality in our daily routine help us enhance our trusting relationship with each other for own personal development.